Tammy Smith
Tammy Smith, a social worker and a single mother from New Jersey, draws inspiration from her work in mental health. Her writing has been published or is forthcoming in Grand Little Things, Merion West, New Verse News, Eunoia Review, Synkroniciti, Poem Alone, Verse-Virtual, and others.
At My First OA Meeting
I worry I won’t lose enough weight to fit
into my swimsuit. If I dwell on the smell of
other larger women in their too-tight shirts,
I might gag. I start to sweat. Nobody warned me
about how much newcomers would raise
the room's temperature. I’m tempted to leave,
but my shoes will click across the hardwood.
It’s hard to sit on a folding metal chair
in the middle of a church basement. I pray
it doesn’t collapse. How many pounds do I need
to drop before anyone notices? Three-quarters of
the way through the meeting, I couldn’t care less
about why a group of plus-sized people binge.
I guess I’m selfish. I can’t stop obsessing about
my excess skin. I hate how it hangs in wet layers
over my midsection. I can’t wait to go home
and empty my fridge filled with Devil Dogs,
Twinkies, and Ding Dongs. The foil-wrapped snacks
mom packed sparkled like Christmas stars
at the bottom of my Wonder Woman lunchbox.
I miss those little handwritten notes she left
tucked inside a napkin. After dad poked me
in the belly, I wore a long sweater to hide
my stomach, even in June. He laughed when I
couldn’t fit on the high-flying swing ride
at an amusement park. When I cried, he denied
everything. Memory, like hunger, is unreliable.
It stretches or shrinks like a funhouse mirror
and distorts how things appear—especially during
the summer, at the height of carnival season.